New Issue of 12 Step Review is Out

photoFather Emmerich Vogt, OP has put out the Summer 2013 issue of The Twelve Step Review and it’s a really important one for those of us out here in recovery-land.  Letting go of resentments is the focus and he nails it.

“Among feelings of unexpressed anger, resentment is regarded as the source of many mental and even physical illnesses. It has been defined as anger re-sent. It’s reliving the bitter hurts of our lives. Going through life with deep resentments leads only to unhappiness and futility in our efforts to get along.”

It was interesting for me to read that there are only two individuals in Sacred Scripture who are called Jesus’ “friends:” Lazarus and Judas. Lazarus makes sense. But Judas?

In the feature article, Father writes, “When Judas comes to betray Jesus, he is not greeted with ‘You filthy betrayer may you rot in Hell!’ Rather Jesus greets him with “friend.” (Matthew 26:49) I’ll write more verbatim from Father’s words:  Why did Judas betray Jesus? This is an important question to ask because betrayal is something we might all be capable of, and the more we understand our sinful nature, the more we can learn from other people’s mistakes, even Judas’.

It would seem that Judas, having his own agenda, was trying to force Jesus into something that would play into his own plans, trying to force Jesus’ hand, so to speak. And, meditating on the role of Judas, some of us can see ourselves in his behavior. How? When we try to force the outcome of events, when we complain against God when things don’t go according to our plans. For this reason, the person seeking to recover from the effects of sin in his life is taught by Step Eleven to put aside all self-serving motives in his relationship with God. The focus of our prayers should be only seeking God’s will for our lives.

Father says he heard once, “Anger is not getting my way in the present; resentment is not getting my way in the pas; and fear is not getting my way in the future. ”

The Twelve Step Review is a quarterly newsletter and web site publication of the Western Dominican Province and written by Father Vogt.  Visit them at for the whole thing.


13 thoughts on “New Issue of 12 Step Review is Out

  1. Why did Judas betray Jesus? Jn 12:6 tells us that Judas was a thief. Jn 13:2 tells us that the devil had put it into the heart of Judas to betray Jesus. In Jn 15:14, Jesus tells the disciples that you are my friends if you keep my commandments. In Jn 15:15, Jesus says to the disciples “I have called you friends because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father.” When Jesus says these things, Judas is not present. When does Judas leave? Jn 13:27-30, after recieving the bread Satan entered him. He immediately leaves and it was night!
    I believe that resentment is the FUEL that Satan supplies to his faithful. Resentment does not hurt. Rather, resentment EMPOWERS! Resentment is a refusal and a reaction. Pride refuses to be weakened by hurt. So, the inward voice says, “Since you hurt me, I will hate you out of vengeance!”
    In the spiritual life, the battle for the eternal is internal. The human heart was meant to be broken. If the heart cannot hurt, it cannot Love! Lk 17:7 says,”He who forgives little, loves little.”
    Instead of hating, try hurting. Then, forgive them Lord for they know not what they are doing! Most of the people who hurt me had no idea of it because I kept my hurt concealed in the innermost crevices of my heart. How sad it is to live in isolation!
    What did Jesus say about Judas? Mt26:24 “It would have been better for him had he not been born.” That is the way I felt ,internally, as a drunkard! Why? With every drink I drank, I betrayed Our Lord!
    Thank God for Confession (The Sacrament of Healing) and the Eucharist ( The True Way to recieve Our Lord Jesus Christ)
    God Bless

  2. How can I order copies of “Detaching With Love: Renewed and Updated, by Fr. Emmerich, and “The Rule of Our Warfare”?

  3. “Anger is not getting my way in the present; resentment is not getting my way in the pas; and fear is not getting my way in the future. ” What an incredible quote! I love it and fell in love immediately. It’s so hoenst, and true, and really makes you stop in your tracks and look yourself square in the mirror. Great great post, and I can’t wait to check out the newsletter!

  4. I nearly cried when I read this…I still struggle with resentment and hearing how Father explains it was really important to me, thank you for posting

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